Cats are known to be aloof; they like to do things themselves and, as solitary creatures, they often prefer their own company. But, there’s one thing that cats can’t resist: sitting in your lap! But why does a cat sit on your lap? It might seem like a simple act, and as a cat owner, you’re probably familiar with your lap being one of their favourite spots, but you might be interested to know that it’s not just for warmth.
In this guide, we’ll explore the reasons why cats like to sit on laps, as well as the benefits of this action for kitty and hooman alike.
They Are Looking for Attention
Cats are independent, and, according to popular theories, they’re pretty cold-hearted creatures who only want you when they need something or have some other agenda (I would beg to differ!). But did you know that your cat desires attention more than anything else in this world? When it comes down to pure emotional needs versus an obligation of service, cats will always choose love over duty every single time.
The little furball may act like royalty with their sharp claws and mean demeanour, but deep down inside, they’re just another needy kitty looking towards us humans for attention. If your kitty always finds a way to sit in your lap then you can be quite sure that they want more attention.
Your Cat Sits In Your Lap for Warmth
Cats are naturally drawn to warm spots. Have you noticed how your kitty will find spots in the house that are near heating pipes or radiators? The next best thing to finding a heated place in the house is to sit on you!
And the reason for this is that your kitty can feel the warmth of your body, and by sitting in your lap, they can make the most of your body heat to make them feel cozy.
Your cat might not be able to warm you up fully in return, but their body heat and fur can still provide some solace on a cold evening and it has been proven that petting animals can help to relieve stress, so really it’s a win-win situation. Plus, there’s nothing better than bonding and snuggling together on a chilly winter night while you watch the TV or relax in bed.
Your Cat Is Trying To Be Affectionate
Your cat cuddling up with you is one way to show how much they have missed you. Have you noticed how they map a beeline for your lap as soon as you get in from work or return from a shopping trip? Don’t listen to the hates, your cat loves you and wants to cuddle on your lap to show you just how much.
Your Cat Trusts You
If a cat sits on your lap, this is a sure sign of trust. Cats are always on high alert, even when resting, and they’re not quick to trust either, so if a cat sits on your lap, you’ve earned it.
Even when napping, cats like to make sure they have the safety net from someone who will protect them if anything goes wrong. If your cat is constantly sitting in your lap, it means she trusts you with her life.
It’s essential to build trust with your pet, but make sure you don’t force them into sitting on the couch or your lap until they are ready. By giving pets their freedom to choose where they sit, and when they sit on you, you allow them to feel safe and provide them with an option to trust you more.
Your Clothes Feel Cozy
Cats are experts at finding the best places to sit! Did you know that they are sensitive to certain textures? If they find a comfy spot with soft fluff on it or if there’s an item with fuzzies on it, they’re likely to claim it as their own.
But not all materials will work – vinyl raincoats aren’t very appealing! But if you are wearing a dressing gown or a furry jumper, the chances are high that your kitty will rush into your lap.
Your Cat Is Marking Their Territory
Cats are territorial creatures and use their smell to mark an area as belonging to them. Cats also communicate with each other by using scents, which is one reason why your cat leaves their scent on everything.
You will often see that your kitty is rubbing their face against you; kitties do this because they deposit oils onto your clothes which act as scent markers, displaying ownership in addition. So when they are sitting in your lap and sleeping, they show the world you as their territory – back off other four-legged friends!
They Like Your Scent
It is believed that cats find comfort in the rhythm of your breathing or of your heartbeat. By sitting on your lap, these sounds are amplified and can help to soothe your kitty.
Your cat’s love for sleeping on your clothes, lap, and other possessions may have a further scientific explanation too. Cats are naturally attracted to spots when they smell like their owner because it makes them feel safer, which helps the feline fall asleep quicker.
Final Words On Why Your Cat Sits in Your Lap
Why does a cat sit on your lap is one of the most common questions I get asked, especially by non-cat people (my cats have a habit of hunting them out and sitting on them!).
And it’s not an easy answer because there are many reasons for this behavior, but ultimately, cats do what feels good to them whether that’s seeking warmth, safety, or attention from you. Whatever their motivation, cats love being around people but don’t always show that affection in the ways we expect, but instead display their love by purring or kneading on our laps. So if they sit on your lap, enjoy the moment and give kitty some cuddles.
